Comments on: Mastering the art of self-sabotage http://www.100emails20dates.com/2010/02/mastering-the-art-of-self-sabotage/ An SF girl's systematic quest to end her singlehood Sun, 08 Aug 2010 02:41:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: N http://www.100emails20dates.com/2010/02/mastering-the-art-of-self-sabotage/#comment-336 N Thu, 04 Feb 2010 17:30:16 +0000 http://www.100emails20dates.com/?p=604#comment-336 I was genuinely being hard on myself initially. When I wrote the post, I was mostly being melodramatic. :-) It is genuinely frustrating that, at a time in my life when I have so few opportunities to meet guys who would be a good fit for me, that when I do meet one, I don't make a good first impression. I think I can recover from the Matt/R. situation. The cursing/B. situation just makes me look a little trashy, which is not who I am. I wish I had been more true to myself, because I think he's a really cool guy. As Julia Child (and the French) would say, "Tant pis!" Onward. I was genuinely being hard on myself initially. When I wrote the post, I was mostly being melodramatic. :-)

It is genuinely frustrating that, at a time in my life when I have so few opportunities to meet guys who would be a good fit for me, that when I do meet one, I don’t make a good first impression.

I think I can recover from the Matt/R. situation. The cursing/B. situation just makes me look a little trashy, which is not who I am. I wish I had been more true to myself, because I think he’s a really cool guy.

As Julia Child (and the French) would say, “Tant pis!” Onward.

]]> By: Matt Savage http://www.100emails20dates.com/2010/02/mastering-the-art-of-self-sabotage/#comment-335 Matt Savage Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:56:46 +0000 http://www.100emails20dates.com/?p=604#comment-335 Oh man, I know what it's like to call someone you like by the wrong name. There has been this one girl who goes to my local watering hole and have been calling her Sara for months now, well, it turns out her name is really Heather! Someone finally pipped up and corrected me on it but I'm baffled as to why she never called me out for calling her the wrong name right to her face, hmmm, bizarre. Oh man, I know what it’s like to call someone you like by the wrong name. There has been this one girl who goes to my local watering hole and have been calling her Sara for months now, well, it turns out her name is really Heather! Someone finally pipped up and corrected me on it but I’m baffled as to why she never called me out for calling her the wrong name right to her face, hmmm, bizarre.

]]> By: E http://www.100emails20dates.com/2010/02/mastering-the-art-of-self-sabotage/#comment-334 E Wed, 03 Feb 2010 16:17:24 +0000 http://www.100emails20dates.com/?p=604#comment-334 I think calling someone the wrong name or cursing probably doesn't make a difference. You are too hard on yourself! And then, if you are like me, you get awkward after that. So don't worry about it or be like me and get awkward and go for Matt/R or B! Good luck. I think calling someone the wrong name or cursing probably doesn’t make a difference. You are too hard on yourself! And then, if you are like me, you get awkward after that. So don’t worry about it or be like me and get awkward and go for Matt/R or B! Good luck.

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